None of us are completely satisfied with the results of all our decisions. But how to know what to change?
First, we need to replace the search for “perfect” with gratitude for “good enough”.
Second, it’s helpful to identify one or two areas in which control is too hard and not working anyway.
Third, is opening to the reality that we have unused capacity.
New movements, allowing more emotion to be expressed at the time and not expecting perfection from others will all give freedom for us to make better choices – even take new paths.